there are no settings for the connection in there. I saw that in another post but didnt want to tweak that.
[root@nagiosxi ~]# cat /etc/my.cnf
[mysqld]
query_cache_size=16M
query_cache_limit=4M
tmp_table_size=64M
max_heap_table_size=64M
key_buffer_size=32M
table_open_cache=32
datadir=/var/lib/mysql
socket=/var/lib/mysql/mysql.sock
# Disabling symbolic-links is recommended to prevent assorted security risks
symbolic-links=0
# Settings user and group are ignored when systemd is used.
# If you need to run mysqld under a different user or group,
# customize your systemd unit file for mariadb according to the
# instructions in
http://fedoraproject.org/wiki/Systemd
[mysqld_safe]
log-error=/var/log/mariadb/mariadb.log
pid-file=/var/run/mariadb/mariadb.pid
#
# include all files from the config directory
#
!includedir /etc/my.cnf.d