I haven't investigated this very far for gearman, but I see the memory is used by dentry in slabtop. Note that buffer_head is using vastly less memory.
OBJS ACTIVE USE OBJ SIZE SLABS OBJ/SLAB CACHE SIZE NAME
151664260 151664260 15% 0.19K 7583213 20 30332852K dentry
3175266 3171808 99% 0.10K 85818 37 343272K buffer_head
Some searching suggests this might resolve the issue if something is using NSS. Curl is mentioned specifically, but I'd guess anything using NSS similarly would have the same issue.
I'm going to see if @bheden can take a look at this when we get back in tomorrow since he's much more familiar with the inner workings of mod_gearman and has some C background. If you don't hear back by noon or so (Central) feel free to bump this.
Is upgrading/disabling not an option, or just haven't gotten around to it? Bryan's probably one of the most knowledgeable people on the team when it comes to mod_gearman, so I'm deferring to his advice on this one.
I just haven't gotten around to it. I have test systems now so I can verify the steps, but it has troubles that take priority over this. Its actually NRPE/nsclient that needs installed on hosts that's the trouble on that end.
Waiting for that advice...