So, still having the java issues, I am wondering can I kick a local process off, well I'm sure I can, but wondering what/how. I can setup some SSH key's, setup some port forwarding on my load balancer, so when a critical hit via the check_nrpe!check_mem, simply say run /usr/lib/nagios/plugins/restartremoteservice.sh
That would be a local bash script that would ssh in (use key's so no password) kill the java pid and restart the app!
Thanks to everyone who tried restart version 1, so now gonna try restart version 2